Health - 6.5
Finances - 9
Fun - 9.5
Happiness - 9
Family - 6
One of the greatest years in my adult life.
As 2015 ends, I take my yearly look back, at what has happened, not happened, and try to determine how happy I am with the previous year. 2015 has been quite a year, with mostly some very significant ups, and the downs being fortuitous in that they could have been far worse.
2015 could be summed up with the following: weddings, travel, and changes to our house. But of course, just these three things barely encapsulate the entire year’s events. There are far more events that make up the past twelve months’ happenings that really tell the story of how it went.
We lost loved ones this year, made some great new beginnings, and set the stage for a hopefully bright future. Of course, lingering beneath it all is that constant dread: that the worst is inevitably just around the corner, and it could all come tumbling down.
I thought this year, it would be interesting to recap events month-by-month, rather than by topic alone. This will give an idea of how the year flowed.
The biggest events didn’t occur until the 2nd half of the year, but there’s still plenty of noteworthy items early on.
- 1/1 – Kicked off the new year with a wedding (one of several this year) by attending Jenny’s best friend’s brother’s wedding in an out-of-the-way (aren’t they all, nowadays?) venue. It was a pretty typical wedding, except for the date, and the lack of a wedding cake. Still, Jenny and I had a good time, and got to spend time with friends and family.
- 1/17 – My brother Don’s mom lost her fight with cancer, and passed away. I’d only met her a couple of times, but she was very nice to me. Don was understandably devastated, as is natural, and makes me appreciate the time I have with my own mom that much more.
- 1/24 – I started using an app on my computers called F.lux, which limits the blue light on your screen in the darker hours of the day. At first, I was just curious, but now, I can’t stand using anything without it. Health benefits aside, it’s a very useful tool.
- 1/29 – I’ve never been very happy with how our house got wired for Internet, resulting in everything being in our master bedroom closet. So I finally purchased a network power line adapter, which lets me have an actual cabled connection between my home office, and the modem upstairs. This made life immeasurably easier for me later in the year.
- 1/31 – Capped off the end of January with my 2nd sleep study.
- 2/1 – Bought a new desk at IKEA, a sit/stand model, which allows me to raise the entire desk on a motor, and use it as a standing desk. This was the perfect option for me, as I have tried to get healthier in 2015.
- 2/5 – My neck started hurting again, and would do so several times throughout the year. Still, this was a sign of things to come.
- 2/7 – My Dad was hospitalized for another UTI. This would be the 2nd time in as many months, so it was worrisome.
- 2/8 – Jenny and I went to the movies to watch “Casablanca” on the silver screen. I had never watched the movie in its entirety, so it was an interesting experience.
- 2/23 – Finally started using a CPAP machine on a pretty much daily basis. It would take some time before the results were apparent, but this was a life-changing event.
- 2/28 – We had some new neighbors move in across the street. It would take us some time to get to know them, but they’re very nice, and have a beautiful little daughter, and a little boy on the way!
- Throughout February – I decided it was time to re-design BKB Designs. I ended up creating not one, but two new logos, before settling on the 2nd to use as my new brand for the site. So far, nothing has materialized, but I’m not exactly promoting the site right now either. Still, it was notable to me.
- 3/1 – My Dad was hospitalized yet again. This for yet another UTI and sepsis. This was a pretty severe one, and would require a 2-3 week stay.
- 3/8 – Probably the most devastating event of the year. We lost Jenny’s grandpa Gene on this day. This of course set off an emotional roller coaster, and altered lives of many people, on many levels. Gene’s funeral followed on 3/12, and I was asked to be a pallbearer, which I couldn’t refuse. It was the first time I’ve had the honor to perform that duty for someone, and it was an emotional moment. With almost all of my living grandparents passed, I considered Gene as much my own Grandpa as anybody else. He welcomed me into the family without reservation, and for that I will always be grateful. He was a great man, and one that I will miss dearly.
- 3/22 – Jenny and I decided to re-do our flowerbeds (perhaps unwisely) and learned how much work a seemingly small project can entail. The fruits of our efforts looked fantastic, but would be short-lived. Summer would take its toll, and kill off all we did, and much of what already existed.
- 3/23 – A big moment for me. I received my official offer letter at work for my new position with the company as a Project Manager. This is a new career, which I’ve posted in more detail about in Career 4.0, but was still a highlight of my year.
- 3/27 – We were in Austin for another wedding, and decided to try In-and-Out Burger for the first time. None of our group were particularly impressed by it though, myself included. After being able to eat Whataburger for so many years, most everything else pales in comparison.
- 3/28 – Jenny’s cousin Tamara had her wedding on this date, which we attended. Though it wasn’t without its issues, the wedding itself was very nice, and the reception was a lot of fun. I walked around taking LOTS of pictures, and essentially turned into an unofficial wedding photographer. I got some GREAT pictures, which I shared with the family.
- 3/31 – Dad finally returns home from this latest hospital stay. A complete month away from home was a long time.
- 4/19 – Jenny and I chose to upgrade our living room television setup. We had long had a 720p plasma television, and I had wanted to upgrade for some time. We broke down and bought a 55″ LG 4K television, and sound bar, which we absolutely love. Now if only more 4K content were easily available.
- 4/25 – Our 3rd wedding of the year to attend, this time to Jenny’s cousin Brad. It was an event filled with lots of people, lots of booze, and lots of noise. Still, we had a good time, though we did bow out a tad early.
- 4/27 – I was notified of a substantial raise from work, though it wouldn’t be effective until July 1st. Still, it was commensurate with my new position, and in line with what I felt I deserved.
- 5/1 – I officially started my new position at work. While it would be a while before I could work from home full-time, it was nice for this half-a-year-in-the-making event to actually occur. This culminated on 5/4 with my meeting my new boss in person for the first time, when he visited Houston as part of the transition in the company.
- 5/1 – The Houston Astros had a great month of April, and I predicted that the Astros would make the post-season this year.
- 5/14 – I started using a new app for my journaling called Day One. It took me some time to commit to it, but once I did, I was glad, and it’s got a lot of nice features. I’ve also found cross-platform options for it, which allow me to use it, even if I’m not on an Apple device. I would spend the rest of the year working on migrating all my previous journal history to Day One, and still not be completed, but it’s my journal tool for the forseeable future. There’s just something considerably easier about doing everything digitally.
- 5/21 – 5/26 – Mom & Dad came down to visit for a few days for my birthday. It was nice to see them, and we had a good time. There wasn’t a lot on the agenda, other than a birthday party I was having on the 23rd, which a lot of people came over for, so it was nice.
- 5/28 – Google launches Google Photos, which I immediately sign up for. It’s been one of the greatest products they’ve launched so far, in my opinion, and has really made finding the photos I want easier than ever. I love this product, and can’t recommend it enough.
- 6/6 – Making Jenny sad, yet proud, we attended the high school graduation for her cousin Jordan. Seeing another generation grow into adults is kind of staggering, really.
- 6/8 – I was struck by an odd pain. Though brief, it was quite severe, and would turn out to be a kidney stone. This was the first sign that I had of something brewing, and it would make things interesting in the days ahead.
- 6/12 – I was finally able to pick up my seats from the Astrodome! We had bought these back around the time of my birthday, but at last, I had two genuine seats right out of the Astrodome. To make matters even more unique, I actually got row BB, seats 5 and 7 (randomly handed out), so it was a neat coincidence.
- 6/22 – 6/25 – Spent a few days at Mom & Dad’s as my father had knee replacement surgery on 6/23. He would need quite a bit of recovery time, but it made a significant amount of progress in helping his mobility.
- 6/30 – Kicked off vacation season for Jenny and I, as we flew out of Houston to Newark, NJ and then drove to Cooperstown, NY.
July is where our year really took off. We had been planning a trip to New York for a couple years, actually, and really got serious about it early in the year. Finally, that trip became a reality, and we flew out for quite an adventure!
- 7/1 – We spent the morning in Cooperstown visiting the National Baseball Hall of Fame, which was quite the museum. Sadly, we had to leave behind the picturesque village of Cooperstown to head for Middletown, NY, the location of our next event.
- 7/2 – Our 4th and final wedding of the year, my cousin Renee married her now-husband Otto, in a beautiful ceremony and reception in Middletown. This was actually our ‘excuse’ for going to New York at all, but it was great to see her (especially so happy) and some other family members I hadn’t seen in a while.
- 7/3 – 7/7 – We finally made it to New York City! We timed our trip to coincide with being in the city for the 4th of July holiday, hoping to see some amazing fireworks (we did not). It was not only memorable because we were in such an amazing city, but also because I ended up in the emergency room on 7/5 with a kidney stone attack. We didn’t let it ruin our trip, and it only shaved a few hours off our sightseeing. If you’d like to read more about this trip, see my vacation post.
- 7/12 – Due to my kidney stone issues, this was the day I finally gave up soda completely. I haven’t a one since–one of the hardest things I’ve done.
- 7/17 – Began another project a long-time coming. Since we built our house, we had wanted to close in our formal dining area and turn it into a dedicated home office space. We finally had the money to do so, and I began seeking quotes to get the work done. I didn’t realize how long this process would take, but it was worth it, in the end.
- 7/23 – Our most expensive home repair to date, our water heater stopped working. After having someone out to fix it, and $450 later, our water heater worked again. I’m sure I could have gotten better pricing had I shopped around, but we were eager to get it repaired quickly and to take hot showers again.
- 7/24 – My website died–the one you’re reading this on. I had some backup issues, and feared I had lost the entire site for good. With luck, I was able to get most of the site restored fairly easily, though it took some significant effort to get everything back up and running. As a result, I took advantage to re-brand with a new logo, color scheme, and theme, etc. The new Brad World website re-launched on 8/5.
- 7/31 – Dad ended up in the hospital for a UTI once again. This was his 4th hospital visit of the year, and 5th going back to December 2014.
- 8/1 – Having realized the frustrations of Jenny’s aged camera in NYC (still got great pictures, just missed a few), we purchased a new camera, the Sony A6000, which is still a highly-regarded unit. It’s a mirrorless camera, so much smaller than Jenny’s, while still getting fantastic pictures.
- 8/6 – Having settled on a contractor for our home-office build, we went and ordered custom doors for the office from Lowe’s.
- 8/12 – After going through bouts of pain and numerous doctor visits, I had surgery to remove my kidney stone. The recovery was actually pretty rough for a few days, but once I started feeling normal again, it was great.
- 8/15 – Our new dining room furniture was delivered! We had needed a decent dining room set for a while, and we finally found one we could agree on. We absolutely love it.
- 8/20 – Our 2nd big vacation in as many months, we flew to Chicago. This was technically a business trip, but we decided to make a vacation out of it, and see the Windy City. It was my first trip to my company’s home office, where I got to meet all my new colleagues, as well as meet some people face-to-face that I’d been working with for a long time. It was a great visit, and I had a really good time while up there.
- 8/21 – 8/23 – We stayed in downtown Chicago, and visited lots of great city sights, ate some really good food, and enjoyed what I wasn’t expecting to be such a nice city. The weather was absolutely perfect, too!
- 8/27 – Back home in Houston, shortly after returning, Jenny and I attended An Evening with Kevin Smith, which was a fun romp, and unexpectedly-long night.
- 9/14 – The doors for my home office finally came in, ending an excruciating wait, and letting the work on the office begin two days later on 9/16.
- 9/21 – Mom & Dad had to put their dog Buddy to sleep. It was a difficult decision, but ultimately, they had to do what was best for themselves, and for Buddy. He was a great little member of the family, and Jenny and I miss him already.
- 9/21 – This was also the date that construction on my home office was finally completed, and I was able to move into it and get things setup the way I wanted.
- 9/23 – My first day of work in my new home office. It was nice to be able to close the doors, and shut out the outside world for a little while to get my job done. By the next day, I had finished painting, decorating, etc. and the office was completely finished.
- 9/25 – Jenny and I upgraded to the iPhone 6s. We both love our phones, and are now on plans that will let us upgrade each year to the latest version.
- 9/27 – Finalizing some of the home renovations, I finished the painting downstairs, and so our entire first floor is finished being painted and we can focus on other parts of the house.
- 10/4 – As predicted on May 1st, the Houston Astros made the postseason for the first time since their World Series appearance in 2005. They would continue in the postseason after beating the Yankees in the Wild Card Game.
- 10/6 – We received a device called Kuna (www.getkuna.com), which is a WiFi-equipped porch light with camera built into it. Since our front door has no peephole, we had no real way to see who was at our door. This solved that problem, and also provided us with the ability to record video when motion is detected. It has not only provided us with convenience, but with a higher sense of security.
- 10/11 – I attended the first postseason baseball game in Houston since 2005, when I saw the Astros host the Kansas City Royals in Game 3 of the ALDS. Houston won the game, and very nearly won the next game to advance, but ultimately lost the series in Kansas City on 10/14.
- 10/13 – Dad goes into the hospital for a 5th time of the year, this time for a heart-valve replacement. Fortunately, there are no complications, and the surgery was a success.
- 10/16 – Jenny and I attended the Oddball Comedy Festival in The Woodlands. This was my 2nd consecutive year attending, but the first that Jenny went with me. This year they had Amy Schumer, and Aziz Ansari headlining, and both were quite funny. There were a number of really good acts, and we both enjoyed ourselves a lot. I can’t wait to see the lineup for 2016.
- 10/17 – We had our first garage sale! Our neighborhood only has (sanctioned) garage sales twice per year, and this was the first time we felt we had enough stuff to put into a garage sale. Various older computers, accessories, furniture, etc. allowed us to do fairly well, not only getting rid of a lot of stuff, but making about $500 in the process.
- 10/31 – The new Apple TV, which I had been waiting a LONG time for, finally came out. I immediately got one and it’s become our primary interface for television ever since.
- 11/1 – Jenny finally talked me into renewing our Sam’s Club membership. We bought a few things then (and since) but I still don’t know if it’s worth the money, for the way we shop. We also bought our new Christmas tree this day, getting a good deal on one at Michael’s, and replacing our broken tree from previous years.
- 11/6 – After Mom & Dad’s medical issues, Don and I have been concerned about them. I ordered them medical alert units, so hopefully if anything happens, help with only be a button-push away. So far, they haven’t needed to use them, which will hopefully remain the case for a long time.
- 11/8 – We made our annual trip to the Renaissance Festival, this time taking our neighbors, one of whom had never been before. It was a cool day, but one without rain, and everyone had a good time. I actually ate far less than I usually do, which surprised me. In fact, we came back with money left over!
- 11/11 – Remember that app named F.lux from way back in January? Well, they finally found a way to make it available to iOS users rather easily! I immediately installed this on my iPhone, iPad, etc. Sadly, Apple forced the developers to remove the app a day later, but not before I got copies of it! Just as it did for my computers, it became a necessary app for my iOS devices as well.
- 11/15 – While attending a birthday lunch with friends, the discussion of a Podcast came up. Luis and I decided to move forward with it, but the origins began here.
- 11/20 – 11/28 – Mom & Dad came down to visit for Thanksgiving. I had the week off from work, and so we were able to get lots done while they were here, and really just enjoyed a nice week together.
- 11/20 – I’ve struggled with my financial software in the past, and once again, I’m back to using Quicken. I really liked You Need A Budget (YNAB), but for actual budgeting I found it too finicky, so switched back to Quicken–for now. I’m sure it won’t be the last time I change software.
- 11/23 – After doing some research and reading a lot about podcasts, one thing that was clear was that we would need good microphones. I bought the Blue Yeti microphone, and was immediately impressed by the quality.
- 11/27 – Thanksgiving was an odd holiday this year. It was our turn to go to Mom & Dad’s for Thanksgiving, but we all decided to do it at our house this year. Not only that, but then Jenny and I did something we never do–Black Friday Shopping–on Thanksgiving night, no less! Jenny finally relented, and let me buy the Apple Watch as my Christmas gift, so we waited in line, and I was lucky enough to get the last of the model I wanted. I’ve actually been really happy with it, and am enjoying the functionality it brings to the wrist.
- 11/30 – Finally found a name for the podcast (of which we’ve yet to record an episode): Shut The Tech Up! It’s got a nice humorous yet catchy name, and wasn’t in use by anybody else. Bought the domain shutthetechup.net, and started working on our plans to record and launch the podcast. Hopefully coming soon in 2016!
December is where things kind of went off the rails, and unfortunately closely mirrors another year not too long ago.
- 12/6 – We bought a ceiling fan for our living room, and while installing it, I fell and hurt my knee again. Something quite similar happened in December back in 2010, so I kind of knew what to expect, and it wasn’t good news.
- 12/8 – Had MRI’s taken (my knee, and my neck) to determine the level of damage to my knee, and the status of my herniated disc in my neck. When I got my results a couple days later, the neck showed pretty much the same results as back in 2009, so I was referred to a pain specialist for a steroid injection. My knee was diagnosed with a possible tear of the ACL. It was decided to go in and scope the knee, to see the extent of damage, and replace the ACL if necessary. However, it was considered unlikely that the ACL would need to be replaced again.
- 12/9 – I gave Jenny her birthday present – a new Kindle Paperwhite. She was due for an upgrade, and she seems to like it very much.
- 12/10 – Jenny’s car exhibited some issues after an oil change, so she was stuck driving my car for several days while we had to wait to get hers fixed. Fortunately, it was completed on 12/14.
- 12/16 – This was a big day for our household, as I received my latest computerized gadget: a 4-bay NAS. For a while now I’ve been wanting to consolidate all our household data and media to a single device. I’d half-way done this through my computer, but I wanted something that provided both redundancy (for data loss) and that wouldn’t require a computer at all. We now have something that will last us a very long time, and lets me host all our media from a central location. This will also allow me to digitize our entire movie library for easy access.
- 12/17 – Went and saw an early screening of “Star Wars: The Force Awakens”, and it was everything I’d hoped it would be.
- 12/19 – Saw “Star Wars: The Force Awakens” a 2nd time, this time in IMAX 3D, along with Grandma Phyllis and Zach. This was also Jenny’s first time to see it. I liked it a lot in 3D, though I’ll probably see it again in 2D going forward. I still want to see it a 3rd time, but I haven’t had an opportunity to.
- 12/23 – Had surgery for my knee, in which it turned out the ACL had been ‘shredded’, and indeed needed replacing. This of course puts me off my feet for a significant period of time, and affected all else for the rest of the year, and into the new one.
- 12/25 – Christmas was hosted at our house this year–at least partially. Jenny’s immediate family spent the day with us this year, and it was nice. It was kind of relaxed, and quiet, and peaceful. The food was excellent, no thanks to myself. The work was all done by Jenny and Martha, and they did a great job.
- 12/29 – To cap off the year, I had a procedure to inject a steroid into my spine, to assist with the herniated disc issues I experienced throughout the year. Fortunately, all of this was covered 100% by insurance, as I’d hit my out-of-pocket maximum for the year back in October. It’s part of the reason we pushed through so much in such a short period of time.
- 12/31 – As a last act of the year, I used my Christmas gift cards to get a new iPad. I find myself using my iPad more and more, and wanted something that would hold up a little bit better than the 2 year-old model that I had at that point. I wanted to get the mini 4, but nobody had them in stock, so I ended up getting the iPad Air 2. So far, I’m not sure if I really like the larger size. Maybe it’ll grow on me.
For New Year’s Eve, we hung out at the house, and called it a night early. I guess we’re too old to stay up all night anymore.
Looking Forward to 2016
2015 was a year with its very high ups, and very low downs, it’s been one of the best years of my adult life; certainly one of the most professionally rewarding. I don’t think I’d trade any of it for a different result.
Looking ahead to the next year, and what it will bring… it’s hard to say. I’ve got the obvious physical therapy ahead of me, we’re hoping to get free of our credit card debt once and for all, to do a little more renovations at home to our kitchen, and to take at least one fun vacation, while trying to save some money for a MUCH bigger one in 2017. We plan to spend Christmas 2016 in Michigan with my brother Don and his wife, and Mom & Dad should be moving back to Houston in 2016 (hopefully early in the year).
But otherwise, I know work will keep me immensely busy, and that life’s unexpected challenges will continue to throw their curveballs my way. Still, I look forward to each and every day, and what it will bring with it, good or bad. So long as I keep waking up, I’ll keep looking ahead.